Scary story man. I'm glad it didn't turn out bad. That's what so many people fail to remember...criminals don't care about laws, that's why they're criminals. I don't carry because I'm "scared" or anything like that, it's insurance for me and my family's safety. No different than having...
Unless you have some particular reason to over spend on the OEM option, just buy a knock off. They cost a fraction, only use double sided tape and look just as good.
I gave a $500 non-refundable for mine, but it was clearly stated before hand this was the case. The initial paperwork I signed stated it as well and protected me a well as the dealer could not sell the car to anyone out from under me, even if someone offered them $10k over for it.
Since we're on this, what's your carry choice? Mine is a Walther PDP compact 4" with Primary Arms RDS. My second PDP. Such fantastic guns out of the box.